10 mistakes men make in bed

Have you ever wondered why she has a frown whenever you feel you should have given her a good time?  If you have your woman constantly at wits end or unhappy after sex with you, be sure that there is a mistake somewhere and  you just might be making one or more of the 10 most common mistakes men make in bed.

 

Mistake one - Why start the foreplay in bed?

It is a bore when everything starts and ends in bed, even when you know that the ultimate game is sex, you should not make foreplay only a bed thing. You could get cuddly while in the sitting room or in the eatery, sneaking a peck on the forehead, a touch on her nape and a brief brush around her earlobe even while driving sure would get her in the mood.

Mistake two - Why aim for the clits?

I am yet to understand why men always aim for the clitoris, it’s not some doorknob. Try not to always go straight for the g-spot, discover where she is most sensitive and responsive. I am sure your woman would be more than glad to show you.

Mistake three - Why make it a silent game?

No one ever said people should have sex in silence, learn to talk while in bed, you could share compliments or ask if she is okay with a certain move you make while in the act, laughter and small talks would make the atmosphere less tense and it sure would make the sex better.

Mistake four - Are you the scorer, she the keeper?

This is quite common for men. Leaving a woman hanging in sex to me is more of a sin. Ensure you carry the woman along and never ever come before her, except you are a stallion and can rise immediately. If not allow her get to a semi climax before riding so you can hit the roof together, it is more fun that way.

Mistake Five - Quit the conventional.

I hear some folks talk about conventional sex styles, well, if the woman is okay with that, I seal my lips. However, most modern women enjoy more spice and dynamics in bed. Be creative with sex; avoid being a straightjacket dude in bed. You would be surprised how crazy and creative your gentle woman can be.

Mistake Six - How do you lick the sauce?

Many men miss it when giving a woman a head. The clit is better seen like a sauce that needs to be licked up than a hot dog that needs to shove down the throat. Quit the disgusting rush to give her a head, and if you must, ensure you do it right.

Mistake Seven - So what is with the porn approach?

Every woman would appreciate some respect while in bed. Do not treat your woman like your favourite porn star or try to play out a porn fantasy on her except there is a common understanding to this end. Quit imposing blowjobs and abstain from the use of violence or dirty languages.

Mistake Eight - You missed the G-spot?

It is terrible to go hovering under without a mental tracker of where you’re headed. It is highly unsexy for a man not to know where to find the G-spot. Next time you’re going on a treasure hunt be sure to go with your map or better still politely, ask for directions.

Mistake Nine - Did you visit the gym?

One rather bad sex move is dozing off immediately after the act. Hey, come on! A little tease or a warm cuddle would sure do the trick. Do not go rolling off to the other side and snoring off immediately. Be sure she is contented and even where you performed below expectation, apologise and promise a better one next time. Plant kisses on her and have her sleep off on you, a move most women would die for.

Mistake Ten - What is the packaging?

Keep you self clean and appealing, a body odour, bad breath, unshaved… would sure be a big mistake. Anyone would feel more aroused by a sweet and clean body. When next you about going on that sex escapade, ensure you a double check and get rid of any offensive smells or sights.